no time for friends

some people have no time for friends, or for what they say or what they want. they have all the time to pick up the phone and speak to you when they need something, not when you ask them for help. then, they develop selective amnesia, don't check the internet or can't even pick up the phone to talk. all they do is crib, about how little time they have. they don't realise how much time they waste on frivolous things. i don't get angry about the big things. but i certainly get riled by the small things. like people returning a call, replying to a message or sms. when they don't do that, i mean, when their courtesies are misplaced, that's when i express my anger. people assume i will forget their injustices. i don't. nor do i forget the good turns. that's my way of saying i reward good behaviour and punish the bad. people who don't understand this side to me can conveniently disappear from my life. i don't care. and people who try to make me feel guilty for succumbing to their own weaknesses can also take a hike.